So with some help here's the solution for any wandering google results friends and what have you.
http://web.archive.org/web/20140922...v50.zip?vsid=b17167168ed4a1a25705ec5161c298cc
http://web.archive.org/web/20140922...80b.zip?vsid=ca0ae29d6229b407d8ebddfc6bd746f1
The .nds file updates the firmware, the rest is the kernel.
This is the official kernel gotten from...
Getting this R4i Gold to work...
http://web.archive.org/web/20140922...v50.zip?vsid=b17167168ed4a1a25705ec5161c298cc
http://web.archive.org/web/20140922...80b.zip?vsid=ca0ae29d6229b407d8ebddfc6bd746f1
The .nds file updates the firmware, the rest is the kernel.
This is the official kernel gotten from...
Getting this R4i Gold to work...